When children
lie to their parents, the parents may feel angry, they may also think that
their children are lack of respect to them, however it is important to know
that lying is one of human’s common feature. Rather than focus on the specific
lies of children, parents should more focus on the purpose of their lies
because all behavior is purposeful
Thing may get
worse if parents confront their lying children in a bad way, it may cause
children feel unsafe and become more deceptive. It is recommended that parents do
not use words lying to their children, instead, they should phrase it, like
“you need to be honest with me”, if they do, the children may be open.
Things that
cause children lie are various such feel afraid of something, or lack
self-confidence. However, if parents
talk to their children In a gentle way, it may help them to uncover the truth.
Lying may be
often found in teenagers, for in this period of age teens search ways to
separate from their parents through many ways such acting guarded around
parents and covering truth. Using appropriate approach and parameters of their
behavior can stick them out of lying.
Some guidelines
for parents to deal with lying children are to know that all behavior is purposeful,
lying is inevitable for children. Avoid using word lying, and children may feel
embarrassed to tell the truth.
In case
children are pathological liars, who also do many bad behavior, professional
treatment may be needed
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